What a Man Does, Not What He Says

Victor contacted me by instant message today. He said that he missed me and would call later. HE NEVER DID! Once again, my guy friend is right. DO NOT LISTEN TO WHAT A GUY SAYS, WATCH WHAT HE DOES. Victor has said that he would call a few times already and has not followed through. This makes me think that he is not into it as much as he says he is. What a turnoff. I really like people who will do what they say they will.

Shane also contacted me about our possible dinner plans this week. We made plans for Thursday but honestly, I feel like canceling. I am not real enthusiastic about him because of our phone calls. I want to get off the phone as quick as I can. His laugh is fake and it seems like he tries too hard. I also found out that he shares a home with 3 college students. Why am I so turned off by this? It seems so immature.

O'Brady sent me an instant message yesterday. He is really hot physically but he is so much into himself. He finally started asking questions about me. I don't like the fact that he is too new agey. I almost want to vomit when he mentions how all these women are after him. He talks about it so much. I believe it because he is hot but wow, he is so insecure. This guy may just be someone cute to go out with for a night and kiss. I don't see myself with him long term, especially because of his past. That is really hard for me to overlook.