No More Desperate Housewives Fantasies

Guess what? The handyman has not knocked on my door in a week!!! I am so happy. I think that raising my voice in front of the other handyman did the trick. I feel so relieved. I was living in so much fear because he was so persistent trying to get me to sleep with him. I learned a huge lesson..no more Desperate Housewives fantasies.

The Blushing Handyman

I bumped into the handyman on the way to Matt's house. He knocked on my car window which scared the crap out of me. Another handyman was near us within ear shot. He said, "Hey how about going to a bar with me on Friday night?" I told him no way, you are married. I said it loud enough to where the other handyman could hear me. Then I lied to him and told him that I am seeing someone and it is serious. I said that my boyfriend would not like me going to a bar with a MARRIED MAN. I raised my voice even higher and the other handyman got near us. He started blushing. I think I embarrassed him. I don't think he will bother me again. I hope this is resolved because I do not want to have to report this.

Handyman Does Not Quit

He came by my place again today and I did not answer the door. He has not done anything to abuse his power but I wish he would just go away. I will have to tell him strongly to not come to my door.

No Handyman Today

I did not hear from the handyman all day. I hope it sticks and that he leaves me alone.

Handyman Does Not Know How to Accept No

I ran into the handyman this morning. He asked, "Why are you not answering the door when I knock"? I said I had a lot going on. He said, "When are we going to have a beer"? I told him that it would not happen, EVER. He said, "Are you scared"? I said NO. I told him I do not get involved with married men. I gave him strong eye contact. I feel like it is now final. Let's celebrate!

Fear No More

Alright, I am tired of being scared. Today the handy man knocked on my door again. Why am I letting a little stalking get to me? It has me terrified to leave my place. I will not let this man get to me. I will live my life. I will be confident. I will be bold. What am I thinking being scared? I am a ballsy bitch! I won't be controlled or manipulated by anyone again. I am a powerful woman dammit! I won't let him piss on my territory.

Stalked by the Handyman

About 2 weeks ago, I was hit on by the handyman. I saw him around 2 times before and wondered about the new hot guy. I had an instant animal attraction towards him. I needed some work done to my place so I placed a work order. He was the person that came to my door so I asked him to come back later because I was not dressed good enough. He told me he would come back the next day. I made sure that I looked nicer. He was in my kitchen and he asked if I was married. I told him no. He asked if I had a boyfriend. I said no. I told him that I have dated quite a bit. He told me that men today just want to sleep with you. He said that every once and a while it is good to have some sex. He told me twice that I should have a boyfriend because I am cute. He said I had nice lips, skin, hair, and eyes. He asked me if I drink. I said yes, I like beer and wine. He asked me if I would like to get a drink that night. I said no, how about another night. We planned a week and a half away. I found out that he is married. He came by my place the next week and asked he we are still on. I said no, it is not a good idea. I told him I don't want conflict. He kissed me on the cheek and said okay so our plans canceled. On the night we were supposed to meet, he sat outside in his truck and waited for me to come home. He asked me where I had been, that he came by and knocked on the door. I told him again that I am a nice girl and I do the right thing and that I don;t want to be involved in this. He shook my hand and left. 4 days later, he knocked on my door 5 different times. I did not answer. I ran into him later as I left for an errand. He told me that he came by my place to say hi. I said that I had a lot going on. He met my daughter because she was with me. What started out to be a desperate housewives fantasy has turned borderline stressful. Hopefully he will leave me alone.